Agreed. Like many of you, I am a surfer first, then kite, then foil. I find a dramatic difference between the 3.
In surfing you are at the mercy of the wave. When kiting came along I could pretty easily jump the waves, outrun the waves, and outrun the closeout sections. Then with foiling, multiply that even more because the foil is so fast.
What I enjoyed about short board surfing, and skating halfpipes, was converting speed into manuever. Bashing the lip or coping, sliding or skidding momentarily out of control, then regaining control and continuing. On a surfboard with kite you can do that and it is super fun in the right conditions and you feel like you are cheating because it is so easy compared to regular surfing where you don't have that mega power pedal at your disposal.
I love foiling, but the one component that drives me crazy is my inability to focus the mega speed into a giant, sloppy, spray throwing skid. Same thing we did with kids on bikes, then later with beater cars in dirt - skidding and sliding and shooting off dust or dirt or water. Nothing better than having your buddies paddle back out in the channel and you slash right in front of them and swamp them with spray. Oh, and I failed to mention snowboarding where you can do the same motion.
So yes, foiling "looks" so different than what the foiler is actually experiencing. And, to me, the distinct difference from other seemingly related sports is that while we ride on a board that looks like a snowboard, surfboard or skateboard, we really aren't riding anything even remotely related to those - we are riding on top of an airplane and the characteristics are completely different than a board. It is speed and glide and weightlessness and quietness.
I love foiling, but it is just different.