Started out as a good topic and devolved into ball size measurements...yep - I no longer feel inclined or enjoy pushing it paragliding in overly ratty air...while many others do - but frankly I couldn't care less - has no impact on my life. PG is not and never was the least bit addictive for me like I have witnessed it consume others - to the point of ruining relationships/marriages or making it difficult to see things objectively.
I still thermal and soar for hours but just not very frequently... - but this is aside the point - because what also gets really old is seeing confident pilots make decisions to fly when they shouldn't or play mas macho being territorial over thermals or assuming that since they have gotten away with something before they always will. I am not accusing anyone on this thread of this nor am I saying everyone is like this - nor am I saying I am Mr. Safety perfect pilot perfect kiter high horse - far from it.
It is that I sadly know of 4 people whom have died pg...in a range of conditions and skills.
So to see this devolve into who is more bad ass or just more ballsy at this and that reminds me of middle school...which was far too awkward a time for me when I had no lady action and no hope of lady action...
A gazillion years later my wife of 17 years loves kiting too(she mostly buggies).....basically we have an unspoken arrangement to have gear in good condition, as much skill/training and experience as reasonably possible and rely on the little voice inside. I see absolutely no reason why I wouldn't feel pretty damned safe gliding on one of my kites eventually.
I have nothing to offer of any benefit beyond that - assuming this was remotely beneficial anyway...