Just my experience, with a weight similar to yours (105 or so).
I am using a Gong Curve Pro L, with a Surf stabilizer 45cm, and a 100cm mast.
This combo has enormeous lift and exceptional stability: you can ride it very slowly (that would be about 8knots or so) with no stalling, and flying transitions are made easier by how "sedated" the foil is.
This is not to say it is boring at all, though: it is my setup for ultra light winds, *and* for waves (yesterday 20 knots, and 1.5/2m waves). It takes some muscling to turn very tightly, but not a problem at over 100Kg
Plus, it till navigate through large foam patches admirably, and won't accelerate too quickly making you run too much forward of the wave.
If you feel adventurous, Gong sells the full carbon setup (100cm carbon mast, L Pro wing), and they include only the *kite 40cm* stab (because Beryl, their in-house phenomenon, "prefers it that way for agility...). I own that combo, and that makes the foil much more lively in turns, but it gets quite a bit more technical. Also, at very low speeds, the stab will stall a lot quicker than the front, which will make the foil point up getting you an extra kick in instant lift. First time, it kicked me up in the air over the foil
Note on the L Pro: the lift is very big. I can get on the foil practically from a standstill if needed. So it is not one of those foils requiring speed to lift you up.
On the other hand, simply get your back foot nearer to the front, and you'll have neutered much of the lift
My second setup is a Veloce M front wing and a different stabilizer (kite 45cm: never could find a Veloce stab in stock...).
The Veloce has way less lift at slow speeds, and the foil is "wobbly" under your feet. It is a fun feeling because it glides faster on average than the Curve wings, but (at least with my kite stabilizer) it is very sensitive to Yaw.
My top speed has been 19.2 on both setups. The Curve makes much resistance at that speed, while the Veloce is difficult (for me) to control (possibly because both front wing and stabilizer are "flat"?)
Best comment I can make: on the L Pro I enjoy my ride, progress, learn, and have fun.
On the Veloce I always go out grinning, but exhausted, and with lots of falls in complex conditions!
If conditions are tough, I just take the L Pro because if conditions are difficult, no point in making it even more difficult just for the sake of it
Pick your poison
(but I'm super happy of the L Pro + Surf 45cm; beware the Surf 40 stabilizer: it's behaviour for lift is more akin to the Kite stabs than the Surf 45).
Lastly: boards.
I own 3: a Groove Skate L (130cm), a Skate Pro (115), and a custom carbon volume-less board (127).
Loved the custom, because it is light (2.4kg) and reactive. Loving the Skate Pro, because it is even better, and a godsend in waves.
But tell you the truth: when I use the Skate L (largest they do), I still have a *great* ride in normal (not too much wave) conditions.
Also beware: the smaller the board, the more reactive it will be, making transitions and turns faster, but also requiring better technique and more commitment.
Gong makes a small Catch board (130cm), which is same size of my Skate L, even lighter at 2.9Kg.
They "reserve" that size for "experts" (although I began with the Skate L). On the one hand, my experience would make me differ.
On the other: Gong are very, very straightforward and honest with their appraisal of their own equipment, so I'd trust their judgement...
P.S.
I agree wholeheartedly with Peter_Frank, both about wind strength and kiter weight (he explained it much better than I could), and about the importance of the stabilizer in the setup.